Life Lessons I Learned from Watching #WorldCup2014

I have never been a sports fanatic. I go to an occasional game, but I cannot make small-talk with sports enthusiasts. When I married a Brazilian 16 years ago, I soon learned that, even though he is not a sports fanatic either (praise the Lord)—soccer is in a category all by itself, and all Brazilians grow up with this game firmly planted in their soul.

I’m not sure all the reasons why—maybe because I’ve always wanted to use sports small talk to start conversations, or maybe it was because the #WorldCup2014 was held in my husband’s homeland—but I totally went loco for soccer this year. Of course, that kind of ended when both of my teams lost, but I learned some valuable life lessons through the experience:

1.      Soccer solidifies the fact that teamwork is vitally important to the strength and success of a group. Even the star player needs his teammates to pass him the ball.

2.      Whatever you do, do it with all your might. (Remember how beautiful it was when the Brazilian team and people sang their National Anthem with gusto?)

3.      There is no auto-pilot in life. No matter how many times you’ve won in the past, do not let down your guard. You must still do your part, perform your duty.

4.      Don’t look away; things can quickly change.

5.      Always have a backup plan. Your second string team needs to be as good as your first.

6.      Make sure everyone is a star in their own way. Star players are great, but if the team solely relies on them to score goals, if they get hurt, the team suffers.

7.      Heritage is apparently more ingrained in us than our so-called politically-correct selves want to believe. Look at who people supported in #WorldCup2014 and why.

8.      Celebrate wins—no matter how small they may seem. (Think of Ghana and Colombia dancing after they scored.)

9.      Fancy footwork is great (and fun to watch), but it doesn’t score goals.

10.   Blocking can be an art form, but the best defense cannot win a game. (Ask the USA goalkeeper.)

11.   Captains are important in keeping the team focused.

12.   Play fair or you may get a dreaded yellow or red card.

13.   No biting.

14.   Don’t fake.

15.   Use your head.

16.   Everyone can have an “off” day. [One just hopes their “off” day isn’t during quarterfinals and that your teammates have your back.]

17.   Running around keeps ones in shape.

18.   Penalty kicks are exciting to watch, but keep in mind, they follow a scoreless game.

19.   Color brightens the day. (Think about all the flags and the sea of color in the stands for each game.)

20.   A cute little song has the power to stay on one’s mind forever. (Think of the FIFA/ESPN song.)

21.   Speaking of power, never underestimate the power of a British accent.

22.   The clock stops for no one, even if they’re hurt.

23.   Get behind the white line when the ref tells you to do so. But remember that it disintegrates.

24.   A bad referee can spoil the game for everyone (or so I’m told).

25.   If somebody loses badly, it’s better to encourage them than to constantly rip out their heart.

I guess now I will go back to my totally-clueless-non-sports loving self. It may be lonely there, but it’s my space. Maybe Ann Coulter was right about a few things after all. Whatever the case, I am glad to have some vivid life lessons from watching #WorldCup2014. It might take me four years to get to the point where I can watch sports again. Did you learn any life lessons you want to share?
 
 

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